Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Christmas with the in-laws? No, thank you.

I guess my husband picks and chooses what he tells me. He keeps on telling his parents he'll be home for Christmas. Excuse me? You didn't even tell me of these plans. What part of we're married and you have to tell me what goes on, don't you understand??!!!

Number one, I work for a wanker who is going to make me work all around Christmas. I'm also certain other people will be trying to take off before me. Thus, getting time off is going to be near impossible and involve some bribery. Number two, I thought we were doing our own Christmas. The last couple of (dreadful) Christmases have been incredibly stressful and his parent's traditions. It's not very fun trying to have Christmas at 3 households. Don't get me wrong, I want to see my parents too...but Christmas is no longer what it used to be since they're divorced. Plus, I'm older and infertile, it tends to be hard to celebrate with a fake smile on your face.

Maybe we can for a quick weekend after Christmas and that will appease them. I've told them several times they're more than welcome to visit us, but since we don't have children for them to make the trip..we're expected to haul our asses up there. Seems a bit one-sided.

Urgh, I don't have the energy for this crap. Just leave me alone to have my own infertile Christmas!!

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